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The importance of identity

Tuesday, December 01, 2015

Rhonda Roorda 鈥92 felt a calling that she did not want to pursue.

After graduating from 17c起草社区 and the University of Michigan she was ready to follow her interest in urban studies.

鈥淭he minute I defended my thesis, I heard God pushing me to research and write about transracial adoption,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 want to go there. I knew I was struggling with my own identity and if I did this, I would have to deal with it myself.鈥

Roorda was born in New York City and did not know her African American birth mother or father. A white couple near Rochester, N.Y., adopted her at the age of two. They happened to be 17c起草社区 alumni as well.

鈥淢y adoption was part of a spike in transracial adoptions in the early 鈥70s,鈥 she noted. 鈥淪oon after, the National Association of Black Social Workers went on the record strongly against this, calling it 鈥榗ultural genocide.鈥欌

For a time, these placements saw a steep drop as emotions ran high. During the next ten years, Dr. Rita Simon of American University did the first study of black children adopted into white homes. The results did not show the level of devastating effects feared鈥攁nd this study and others led the federal government to pass two laws paving the way for interethnic adoption again.

However, both Simon and Roorda knew that while all children need and should have homes, more than a home is required in transracial adoption settings.

鈥淚 was relinquished, abandoned and God鈥檚 grace provided me a home,鈥 Roorda said, tearfully. 鈥淏ut while love is crucial, more is required. Families need to recognize that being 鈥榗olor-blind鈥 in these settings is not healthy.鈥

Thus, Roorda partnered with Simon to produce a series of three books that share the stories of persons in transracial adoptive homes: In Their Own Voices (transracial adoptees); In Their Parents鈥 Voices (adoptive parents); and In Their Siblings鈥 Voices (non-adoptive siblings)鈥攁ll published by Columbia University Press.

The series has pulled Roorda into a national conversation on the topic, and she speaks from coast to coast on the subject.

The fourth book in the series鈥攚hich Roorda wrote alone after the passing of Dr. Simon鈥攈as just been published and is called In Their Voices: Black Americans on Transracial Adoption, featuring the perspectives of a wide range of African Americans on the subject from the Jim Crow Era, to the Post-Civil Rights Era.

鈥淚鈥檝e always connected to the biblical story of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego in the fiery furnace,鈥 said Roorda. 鈥淪omehow, I鈥檝e always remembered that God was with me, from the playpen on.鈥

Roorda admires adoptive parents for their love and willingness to welcome multicultural children into their homes. She feels the same about open-minded adoption agencies. But she emphasizes that more is necessary.

鈥淢y challenge to the current state of affairs is that race does matter. We know that many transracial adoptees are not connecting with communities that look like them. Agencies are not recruiting and retaining multicultural staff members. These things make it hard for children to form lifelong identity,鈥 she said.

Her new book brings African Americans to the table to talk about how they persevered and they share their wisdom with families.

鈥淲e know what works and what does not work. We need intense mandatory training,鈥 she said.

Roorda manages this challenging work with her day job as fund administrator for the Michigan Independent Colleges and Universities organization in Lansing, Mich., an effort she has been a part of for almost 20 years.

鈥淚t鈥檚 painful, it鈥檚 gritty, but it is all blessing,鈥 she said. 鈥淚鈥檓 OK. I know where I came from. God never allowed me to give up, and now he wants to use me to help others.鈥