A Biblical Understanding of Pain
A Biblical Understanding of Pain by John Timmerman 鈥67, 17c起草社区 English professor emeritus, Eugene, Ore.: Cascade Books, 2013, 118 pp., $16.
John Timmerman has coped with his share of pain during his lifetime. 鈥淚鈥檝e had personal situations in my life and when you are experiencing them it doesn鈥檛 seem fair,鈥 he said.
He鈥檚 also mentored students during his 37-year teaching career who have come to him with personal problems. 鈥淚 can鈥檛 tell you how many students have come in under a cover story of wanting to talk about a paper and have had the tears come out about something else they are dealing with. I see the amount of pain they carry around with them, and I wanted to address this.鈥
Timmerman鈥檚 goal for A Biblical Understanding of Pain is to consider what we suffer and why we suffer it. In the book he distinguishes six specific categories of pain and then provides biblical understanding and practical suggestions for coping.
鈥淭here鈥檚 a lot of talk and writing about pain,鈥 he said. 鈥淲hat makes my book different is I wanted to come to an understanding of pain in the Christian life.鈥
While researching for the book, Timmerman read authors who wrote of the 鈥済ift鈥 of different kinds of pain, the 鈥渏oy鈥 and 鈥渂lessing鈥 of suffering and one who instructed to 鈥渆mbrace鈥 pain. 鈥淚 would rather hug a porcupine,鈥 Timmerman wrote. 鈥溾 I don鈥檛 want to embrace my pain, I want to get rid of it.鈥
Timmerman begins with chapters on denial and the need to address pain and an attempt to define pain in the context of evil. 鈥淚 begin with the fall and take it through Christian history to the present in which we live with Christ and finally to the resurrection. That鈥檚 my template for understanding pain in the world today,鈥 he said.
The book then includes chapters on physical, spiritual and emotional pain, and the pain of mental illness, the prodigal and memories. Throughout, Timmerman uses personal stories of encounters with pain.
鈥淚 use stories,鈥 said Timmerman. 鈥淢any from my own experience and others from students, who gave me permission to tell their stories.鈥
Timmerman describes instances of his pain as a result of metabolic syndrome, his young daughter鈥檚 pain recovering from surgery, his wife鈥檚 battle with postpartum depression, and his family鈥檚 grief over the murder of a niece and her child. Other stories of a prodigal daughter and a daughter wronged by her father also illustrate heartrending experiences in the book.
He then offers biblical understanding and practical suggestions for dealing with painful circumstances.
鈥淚鈥檓 not a theologian,鈥 he said. 鈥淢y understanding comes from a lifetime of trying to live a Christian life. The book is applicable to laymen suffering pain; it鈥檚 very practical.鈥
The chapter on mental illness was the biggest challenge for Timmerman: 鈥淚n the modern church people are reluctant to speak openly about mental illness. You can鈥檛 put a Band-Aid on it, and other people can鈥檛 see it. People are sometimes confronted with statements like, 鈥榊ou鈥檙e not praying hard enough.鈥 It鈥檚 not widely accepted.鈥
He included the chapter on prodigality, which is a source of pain not often addressed, because it came to him as he was writing the book.
鈥淲hen I set out to write the book, I never imagined writing on that,鈥 he said, 鈥渂ut it just popped up. Prodigal children, husbands and wives鈥攑eople suffer terribly from it.鈥
In the end Timmerman offers hope to those who are suffering: 鈥淲e understand, however, that pain does not have the last word on this earth,鈥 he wrote. 鈥淚t is not all powerful; only God is. God sets the limits; He sets the boundaries when our pain-riven lives don鈥檛 even know if there are boundaries, when we wonder if we can possibly go on.鈥